Know its too soon, but I felt like posting again.. My post last night kinda got everyone thinking! I've even been asked by a few, if i'm alright.. Thank you for reading all of you.. and all your comments really helped too! I was just in a wierd mood, and its better now..
Incidently, as I was replying to the comments.. I got this in a forwarded email.. Makes sense to me, thought I'd share!
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you all of you for being a part of my life, whether you were a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime..
posted by Reema @ 1:53 am
26 comments
26 Comments:
I don't know the reason I met you because we met in such circumstances that can only be, one in a million. Maybe time will tell that reason.
I hope our wonderful friendship is not 'seasonal' because seasons end with time, although they do return but with a different flavour.
I don't know if our friendship will be for a 'lifetime' because we will have to live our full life for that and only time will tell...
Hopefully, our friendship will be for a lifetime, with only one season that of trust and many beautiful reasons...Amen!!
There is no such thing as 'too soon' when it comes to posting the posts. Every time you post is the 'right' time.
Aapne hamara Ahmed Bhai (urf shayar sahab) se introduction karva tha and believe it or not I came today earlier to read his comment and his shayari and I was not at all disappointed.
Actually, since this post is almost continuation of last one, I wanted to write a nazm by Gulzar sahib...
Ek din zindagi ke rubaroo aa baithe, zindgani ne poocha...
dard kya hain, kyun hota hain, kahan hota hain yeh bhi toh pata nahin chalta...
tanhai kya hain aakhir, kitne log toh hain phir tanha kyun ho...
mere chehra dekh kar zindagi ne kaha, main tumhari judwa hoon, mujhse naraz na hua karo...
umm actually im really thnking hard as to what to add here!! what u wrote reema .. is true!! very true!!
umm i have umm a differnce of opinion ...a lil bit... i think who ever comes whther for a reason , season or forever ... leaves an impact for a lifetime... so isnt every 1 in our life a lifetime personality??
those who come and leave us in mid track.. even they teaches us sumthing tht we remeber thru out forever!!
and i think whoever comes in our life ... is an angle sent by God... coz He is helping us to fulfil sum thing we really want!!
sorry but i guess a lil poetry suits here too :P...
m i allowed ??
till u answer this qs .. lemme share sumthing else....
The worst part of life is missing a friend but the best part of life is having a friend worth missing :)
hehe yep, Ricky.. Karunya zindabad! :p love all that u said.. but reading wat Ahmed's written makes me think - that people who come into our lives, most of them atleast.. do leave an impact for a life time!
hav me thinking Ahmed.. most of the people who come into our lives DO leave an impact for a lifetime - their memories, wat they do n say can never be forgotten.. very well said!
shayeri is always allowed yaar.. yaha nahi sunaayi toh msn pe toh mujhe sunna hee dogey aap.. ;) feel free to share whatever!
.. n btw Ahmed, ur getting fans here too, aapki shayeri ke! i'm making u more famous!! :p
n i loove the quote!!!
My views are a little different because I feel that some people who come in our lives without any REASON don't leave an impact that we remember them for the LIFETIME. Simmlarly, people who come just for one SEASON maybe forgotten with the passage of time. Some people just don't leave any impact on our lives.
For e.g. because of my Dad's postings, I changed 11 schools till 12th grade and so many friends came into my life but now I don't even remember names of half of them. Maybe they left some imprint unconsiously but then maybe they didn't...
umm reema u see thts the propb ... i mean i feel embarrassed... i mean im content being unknown... u know mujhay fans say dar lagta hai ... im afraid of disappointing ppl :P
waisay thanx u liked what i wrote :P
for once i made reemaa think :P
and waisay u always remeber ppl who come in ur life.. they might go at the back side of ur memory but once u come across them every thing refreshes... thts my opinion... u all may have differences :)
Ricky, wat u say makes sense as well.. speccially cuz as u say, u've lived it! for me, i dunno.. maybe i havnt met any particular people who came into my life without a purpose n i dun remember them anymore..
Ahmed, u deserve to be known.. mujhe ziyaada naa push karo, warna ill even start promoting ASTC n ur books yaha par!! :p [as long as u give me commission.. ;]
trust me, u dont disappoint.. n aapki shayeri tohh.. never!! :D
na paroosy na!!
and kitan commission loo gy :P .. meray losses share kar lo:P im into losses ;)
Updated!!
Silky Moon, that was nice!! yep, there's been quite a bit of shayeri around here.. im thinking of writing a post on that next!
definately reemaaa!!
im waiting tooo .. tht sure would b fun :P
write sumthing soon!
waisay u can write sum thing abt ur net too :P
im actually thinking of posting some of Ahmed Saya's shayeri.. wat say Ahmed?? :p
I am waiting for the shayari session to begin...
NO WAY!!!
my poetry is not worth publishing here ... and honestly it will result in lack of intrest of ppl... and more over ppl will reduce from ur blog.. furthermore it will look boring ...
so this idea failed..
write sum general stuff abt poetry... add on ur favourite shers experince abt bait bazi in which i forced u to take part :P ... how u got khusoosy inaam .. how lame shers we made at tht instant ... the way we cheated :P
and how i always manged to bag the 1st postion even though out team lost :P
u can write how much u hated shayary in the beginng and how u recahed a point whr u could do poetry urself
and a lot of stuff... but dont post my poems.. it will definately ruin ur blog ..
till then see u!!
i hope u all agree with me ppl :)
God Ahmed, cut it out.. thnx for the suggestion.. reminded me of the good ol' days.. *siigh* but ill still write on ur poetry if i want too! :p
lol, soon.. as soon my internet problem gets sorted!
Miss Dial-up, Where is your Broadband? :P
i think ur post is long over due reema!!
aur kitna intezaar karao gy!!
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